Gentledom in the Test of September 2019 – BDSM at a high level

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Gentledom in the Test of September 2019.

Gentledom referred to as “The level of full BDSM page” and exists since 10 years. Emerged from a fetish Blog, the Dating platform developed to number 3 in this field in the German-speaking countries. In addition, the operator is a sought-after Interview Partner in media such as the Huffington Post or VICE.

Whether You BDSM contact with the conscience, will find here Something is actually, or only 08/15-Sextreffs, we clarify in our detailed test report.

quick login, no Social Media-data necessary to have a separate login for the Forum needed comprehensive profile information possible BDSM Test optional.

You can sign up at Gentledom directly on the page. In addition to Your email address, age and postal code You have to select only Your desired Pseudonym. On strong sexually motivated names such as “GeilerHarterSchwanz27” You should do without: The provider wishes to have a high level, and delete such Profiles within the shortest possible time.

A special feature of this Portal the external Forum, which requires a separate login with a nick name and E-Mail is. In the following of our test report, we split our observations, therefore, as soon as there are large differences between the Gentledom Community and the Gentledom Forum .

Profile position.

The Community offers an extensive range of profile information that can be added at any time: in addition to relationship status, physical attributes, situation in life, and habits (alcohol consumption, tobacco consumption) may also be the readiness for the exchange of images specified. You can also create image galleries that are only visible to friends. A large free-text box to describe Your Person completes the offer .

On the subject of pictures and photos: These can be uploaded to an unlimited number, but must be youth-free and are unlocked by the moderators within 48 hours .

The information in the Forum is not quite as extensive: in addition to a free text field to describe what you and the search grid, You can link to Your Partner (including an indication of whether the access data of Your own user profile). Your inclination in terms of BDSM, as well as birthday, place of residence/postal code, and Hobbies can optionally be specified. Forums-typically, the possibility to set an Avatar and create a signature .

Here are some example questions:

You get excited by the idea when an announcement of pain to Your Partner and/or humiliation? You get excited by the idea when You realize that the pain outweighs it all? You get excited by the idea of the body of Your partner, ropes/chains to see later printing traces ?

The operator explicitly points out that the Test for beginners is only a rough estimate, since in BDSM the own fantasies and the sensations in the real implementation, however, can differ greatly .

Members.

over 8,500 high-active users in the Forum, good mix of men and women, mainly heterosexual users in the age range 25-55 no commercial Profiles personal verification in the Forum.

In the Forum of Gentledom 8,500 users are logged in and to write an average of 180 posts of the day – a lively exchange of views is taken care of. Both the sex and age distribution, made on us a good and balanced impression. Here can be found something for everyone: friendship, game, relationship, and partnerships.

In our Test, we have no Fake Profiles or other User with financial interests in mind. The operator sets a very high value to an ad-free environment and locks in question offers quickly. The Forum will also practices a very effective, personal verification: In the entire Federal territory, there are volunteer “verifier” may confirm the authenticity of the user. This takes place, for example, at a Meeting in a cafe in the area. In addition to the correct, specified gender and age will also be taken to ensure that the applicants have proper manners. After the successful verification, the user for additional FSK18 be unlocked areas of the forum. A Review is also about the participation in a meeting in the area.

The operator wants to keep its Portal clean and include measures such as fictitious Profiles, which check whether members of illegal minors, request for sexual acts. An infringement is punished with a deletion, and a virtual house ban .

high quality of the Profiles, unlimited Upload of images, no over 18 content is allowed visibility of the photos can be restricted.

In our Research we have found almost exclusively extensive, completed Profiles, have delivered a good impression on others. Although it lacked some of the profiles of photos, but that may be the issue, and these users do not want their preferences publicly. The Fake density, we consider as extremely low: Suspicious Profiles directly from the profile reported and will soon be tested, if possible, and, where appropriate, deleted.

Due to the design options in the Forum, and the details were not as detailed as in the Community, but allowed for some first impressions of the other users. Here, the above-described, personal verification, there is also the You in front of unpleasant Surprises, protect and present, in addition to the nick name will be placed .

Images collectors will, however, be disappointed: FSK18-the photos are from the youth protection reasons, is strictly prohibited.

Contact the manufacture.

Search options in both portals the minimum up to a maximum of 50 search results in the Community, Shoutbox, news system, and groups are available (Community) external Forum and chat room.

First step is to Find acquaintances, the Search function is. It can be searched according to gender, age, ZIP code, postal code, BDSM-inclination (Dom/Sub/Switch), and Intention. There is the option of “last Online” or “to sort new members”. We found it unfortunate however, that the results are limited to a maximum of 50 User .

limited to age

A contact is in various ways possible: in addition to the classic message about the profile getting to Know about the “groups” is possible, which can be compared with a kind of forum System. With approximately 50 in number, these various BDSM cover topics as well as Off Topic. To be completed by regional groups from D/A/CH. In the groups between Public and Private, a distinction is made – the Latter require the activation of the presenter.

Also, a “Shoutbox” on the home page, which is practically a small Chatroom, and members, for example, questions about the Portal, answer exist as communication opportunities .

Within the Community, it is possible to set the selected conversation partner on the friends list and specific information in the own profile as well as picture galleries to unlock. Unwanted users can be reported, but not blocked .

However, we have found that this is hardly necessary. Gentledom under the dispatch of identical, impersonal cover Letter to multiple User says and threatens with immediate blocking if “no” is ignored for the contact attempt and continue to be a nuisance is taking place.

Search in the Gentledom Forum is limited to age, gender, place of residence and Hobbies, and can’t be sorted .

Communication here is – Surprise! – mainly in the Forum instead. There are over 100 users are almost always online, and new posts are added every few minutes. Overall, You will find here to 15,000 topics close to 500,000 posts. The categories leave nothing to be desired: Any BDSM-touch is supported, and also recommendations, stories, and General topics listed. For special areas, such as, for example, “Doms/Tops”, “Subs/Bottoms” or “user meeting” will require a personal verification, whose procedure is described in the test report section of the “members” in detail .

Also there is a private messages system, two chat rooms for neutral and exclusively for BDSM topics.

The profile members can be in the circle of friends added, however, and reported to be blocked .

Functionality.

Community requires incorporation of double registration for full use the extensive FAQ section, no App.

Gentledom killed us at the first visit, with a large mass of Content, which is both informative, editorial content and Dating of the Features contained.

Before you use, we attach You to read the “terms & conditions/help/FAQ/etc.”section to the heart. Here You will find a comprehensive description of the functions also help for beginners. Note also the “Community etiquette”, because violations are punished, probably with a lock. User surveys, to Community-related issues and planned Changes to round out the section .

Unfortunately, we found the need to have for the Forum separately register, but can say that it is the absolute value .

Both the Community as well as the Forum have a clear and easy-to-use mobile website which makes an App superfluous .

Special Features.

Info-Area / Blog.

In the history of the platform, founded, exist for 1,000+ editorial contributions to all facets of the BDSM world. In addition to technical contributions to medicine and law, there are countless instructions and tips for beginners and Advanced, to find craft instructions for a fetish furniture and toys, but also reviews and fictional stories. In the Interview section you will find insights into the thoughts and lives of others BDSMler.

Personals.

Within the Community You can turn under the heading “personals” applications. This will search by postal code sorted and can be Doms, Subs or couples for any occasion be used to .

Master tables.

The Gentledom members regularly organize “Power-games-master tables” in Berlin, Bielefeld, Dortmund, Düsseldorf, Frankfurt, Hamburg, Mannheim, Munich, Oberhausen, Stuttgart, and Vienna, as well as the new länder in order to meet and exchange ideas. The average of 10-50 members visited Meeting will be announced in the Forum .

Gentledom in the practice test.

level full BDSM-platform BDSM high quality of members with extensive information and texts to topics for BDSM-beginners.

After a short familiarisation period, we have found our bearings in Gentledom well. The information on offer away from the Dating area is gigantic and answered all the questions on the subject. Even beginners in the BDSM world are welcome and will be warmly received.

At the heart of the project is the Forum and an additional registration is worth it. You will find at any time members from all over Germany for a good conversation. The groups within the Community, however, are not as active, but not extinct. Was looking for everything From love / relationship, friendship to Sex.

Gentledom rightly bears the self-chosen designation, “The level of full BDSM page” from our point of view: Although the site is mainly on sexual issues, had to do all of the members with whom we have to at no time pushy or vulgar. Even if it was probably Sex .